Paul says
something really interesting in Titus 2, that is being highlighted by the
Lindsay Clancy trial. He says among other things that women need to be taught
how to love their children,
"3 the
older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not
given to much wine, teachers of good things— 4 that they admonish the young
women to love their husbands, to love their children,..." (Tit. 2:3-4).
There are a
lot of amazing mothers. I am surrounded by many of them in my family, social
network and church environments. Incredible women, doing incredible things for
their children and families.
If you are
surrounded by such women, you might find Paul's statement, here, that women
need to be taught how to love their children, to be strange. But the Lindsay
Clancy trial has, once again, shown us that Paul had a supernatural insight
into human nature for both men and women. He was not seeking to simply repeat
cultural ideas, but rather to convey transcendent truths. Transcendent truths that
we ignore at our own peril.
If the
culture of the home is broken enough, for long enough, you will have an
increasing number of women in society who will support a woman like Lindsay
Clancy, as we have all just seen, to our horror. The abortion numbers should
have told us this problem existed. If that did not, abortion up to birth should
have told us this. But people were so uninterested in hearing this, that it
took the evil of a woman blaming her depression for pre-meditated murder to
remind us that women need to be taught to love their husbands and children,
just like men need to be taught to love their wives.
People forget
that Paul lived and wrote in a day where a woman who really did not want her
kids could dump them in the forest to let them die of exposure. Something which
was common in ancient Rome, Greece and other societies in that day. Or she and
her husband could sell unwanted children into slavery; something which also
happened. Or they could simply put their children under the authority of a
slave or other servant to be raised, trained, and brought up, barely even engaging
with them. These are just some of the evils that were accepted.
These things
sound unconscionable in our day and age, though many parents have moved back
closer to doing the third one through the schooling system. But the support for
Clancy amongst a too large subset of women shows us the old pagan ways could
easily come back, if society lets them.
Paul knew
that a young mother needed the guidance of older, experienced women, especially
her family and Christian family, to help her get through the harder stages of
pregnancy. He did not know the term post-partum depression, and he did not have
children of his own. But he had supernatural insight into the kind of healthy
structures a young woman needed around her to get through pregnancy well.
Praise God,
for the women I know doing this. May God use the clear nature of Lindsay
Clancy's evil to wake up more people to the way our society has been heading.
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