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Wednesday, 21 May 2025

Pride Ruins Contentment




It is amazing to see how some men can have so much and yet be willing to lose it all to have some more. We read this about Pyrrhus in Plutarch’s Lives:

“These brought gifts to Pyrrhus, and told him they wanted a leader of reputation and prudence, and that he would find there large forces gathered from Lucania, Messapia, Samnium, and Tarentum, amounting to two thousand horse and three hundred and fifty thousand foot all told. This not only exalted Pyrrhus himself, but also inspired the Epcirots with eagerness to undertake the expedition.

Now, there was a certain Cineas, a man of Thessaly, with a reputation for great wisdom, who had been a pupil of Demosthenes the orator, and was quite the only public speaker of his day who was thought to remind his hearers, as a statue might, of that great orator's power and ability. Associating himself with Pyrrhus, and sent by him as ambassador to the cities, he confirmed the saying of Euripides, to wit, “all can be won by eloquence that even the sword of warring enemies might gain."

At any rate, Pyrrhus used to say that more cities had been Won for him by the eloquence of Cineas than by his own arms; and he continued to hold Cineas in especial honour and to demand his services. It was this Cineas, then, who, seeing that Pyrrhus was eagerly preparing an expedition at this time to Italy, and finding him at leisure for the moment, drew him into the following discourse. "The Romans, O Pyrrhus, are said to be good fighters, and to be rulers of many warlike nations; if, then, Heaven should permit us to conquer these men, how should we use our victory?"

And Pyrrhus said, "Thy question, O Cineas, really needs no answer, the Romans once conquered, there is neither barbarian nor Greek city there which is a match for us, but we shall at once possess all Italy, the great size and richness and importance of which no man should know better than thyself'.'

After a little pause, then, Cineas said, "And after taking Italy, O King, what are we to do?"

And Pyrrhus, not yet perceiving his intention, replied, "Sicily is near, and holds out her hands to us, an island abounding in wealth and men, and very easy to capture, for all is faction there, her cities have no government, and demagogues are rampant now that Agathocles is gone."

"What thou sayest,” replied Cineas, "is probably true; but will our expedition stop with the taking of Sicily?"

"Heaven grant us," said Pyrrhus, "victory and success so far; and we will make these contests but the preliminaries of great enterprises. For who could keep his hands off Libya, or Carthage, when that city got within his reach, a city which Agathocles, slipping stealthily out of Syracuse and crossing the sea with a few ships, narrowly missed taking? And when we have become masters here, no one of the enemies who now treat us with scorn will offer further resistance; there is no need of saying that."

"None whatever," said Cineas, "for it is plain that with so great a power we shall be able to recover Macedonia and rule Greece securely. But when we have got everything subject to us, what are we going to do?"

Then Pyrrhus smiled upon him and said, awe shall be much at ease, and we'll drink bumpers, my good man, every day, and we'll gladden one another’s hearts with confidential talks.”

And now that Cineas had brought Pyrrhus to this point in the argument he said, "Then what stands in our way now if we Want to drink bumpers and while away the time with one another? Surely this privilege is ours already, and we have at hand, without taking any trouble, those things to which we hope to attain by bloodshed and great toils and perils, after doing much harm to others and suffering much ourselves."

By this reasoning of Cineas Pyrrhus was more troubled than he was converted; he saw plainly what great happiness he was leaving behind him, but was unable to renounce his hopes of what he eagerly desired.”[1]

The rest of Pyrrhus’ life is history. Literally. From him comes the term “Pyrrhic victory” for he was able to defeat the Romans in battle, but it was observed by one of the his men that the cost of his victories would ensure his defeat. Pyrrhus could defeat Roman legions, but he could not get Rome to sue for peace, and ultimately he was forced to withdraw, and he ended up losing much of what he already had. He died because a woman threw a tile at his head and while he was still recovering himself he was taken and beheaded by one of his enemies.  

I cannot help but wonder if Paul had someone like Pyrrhus in mind when he wrote this,

“6 But godliness with contentment is great gain, 7 for we brought nothing into the world, and we cannot take anything out of the world. 8 But if we have food and clothing, with these we will be content. 9 But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation, into a snare, into many senseless and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs” (1 Tim. 6:6-10).

Now, of course Pyrrhus wanted more than just wealth, he wanted basically world domination over the Mediterranean. He wanted to be great like Alexander. But how many people look at what they do not have and so covet it that they lose everything they already have. They “pierce themselves with many pangs.”

Godliness with contentment cannot be commended enough. God may choose to add to you much more than you currently have. But if you are not content to enjoy what you have now being gifted more will not solve this, and you may end up with far less and lose much in godless pursuits for more shiny things. Pride ruins contentment and can cause you to destroy yourself.

Pyrrhus was a great general of history. But his over estimation of himself caused him to bring himself to ruin. Don’t make that mistake in your own life.

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[1] Plutarch’s Lives Volume 2, Castalia Library, pp. 534-535

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