Gaslighting
To systematically seek
to undermine a person or persons by causing them to doubt their own senses and
sanity, through carefully deployed misdirection and systematic telling of lies
and half-truths.
Author's Definition
If you have
read any recent articles on domestic violence you will likely be familiar with
the term gaslighting. Gaslighting is a deception technique used by abusers to
keep their victim in line, and loyal to them, all while harming them at the
same time, whether psychologically or physically. Wikipedia (2019) defines
gaslighting as:
“…a form of psychological manipulation in which a person
seeks to sow seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or in members of a
targeted group, making them question their own memory, perception, and sanity.
Using persistent denial, misdirection, contradiction, and lying, gaslighting
involves attempts to destabilize the victim and delegitimize the victim's
belief.”
Put simply
gaslighting is a technique used to keep the victim off their feet and unable or
less able to use their reasoning faculties to make a reasoned defence against
their abuser. You may wonder why an abused wife, or husband, might stay with a
dangerously abusive spouse, often it is because they are gaslighted into
thinking they are at fault and they are the problem. It may be hard to conceive
but skilled narcissists are often very capable at using lies to emotionally overwhelm
their victims. This causes the victim to doubt themselves, doubt their beliefs,
even doubt their whole perception on reality. Which in turn causes them to feel
more dependent on their abuser, which is a vicious and sad cycle. It is one
that people can break out of, but it is not always very easy, especially if the
person is isolated, and kept away from healthy family and friends, who will be honest with them.
Right now
you are thinking: this is fascinating Matt, but what does this have to do with
diversity in society?
Well, our
leaders have been gaslighting us, and most of us don’t realize it, and many people
who do realize it are afraid to speak out publicly for fear of being accused of
being racist, xenophobic, Nazi, or something else…in other words many people
are afraid to speak out because they are worried they might be the problem. We
have been gaslighted into submission to deceptive and self-serving leaders, who
do not have our best interests in mind.
Let me give
you some examples. You have probably heard the oft repeated phrase “diversity
is our strength.” It is the kind of corporate double speak that you hear from
woke CEO’s, diverged fashion companies, progressive agenda pushing sport codes
(I am looking at you Rugby Australia, AFL, and, sadly, NRL). Among many other world leaders, both Canadian Prime
Minister Justin Trudeau, and London Mayor Sadiq Khan are both famous for crying
that “diversity is our strength.” Khan even had the gall to say as much while
London was going through a string of terror attacks that were a direct gift to
Britain from their diverse immigration policies over the last few decades. Indeed he told Britons this was their new normal. I wonder why they voted for Brexit?
The average person can automatically smell the whiff of balderdash in the statement “diversity is our strength”, but then we are pumped with so much messaging about its benefits that we tend to shrink back thinking, well maybe it is true. Our media, our news, our movies, our TV shows, our radios, our sporting codes, our school teachers, our government, and the elites in every aspect of society have been repeating this phrase or a version of this phrase for so long that many people have come to accept it. And even many who do not accept it, because they can see the downsides of too much diversity, hold back their criticism, wondering if they are the problem. Our western societies are showing the symptoms of being gaslighted by abusive leaders and it’s not good.
The average person can automatically smell the whiff of balderdash in the statement “diversity is our strength”, but then we are pumped with so much messaging about its benefits that we tend to shrink back thinking, well maybe it is true. Our media, our news, our movies, our TV shows, our radios, our sporting codes, our school teachers, our government, and the elites in every aspect of society have been repeating this phrase or a version of this phrase for so long that many people have come to accept it. And even many who do not accept it, because they can see the downsides of too much diversity, hold back their criticism, wondering if they are the problem. Our western societies are showing the symptoms of being gaslighted by abusive leaders and it’s not good.
And I mean
abusive. You know why? Because many of them know that they are harming society
with their increased push for more and more diversity with religious zeal, and
they have known for some time, and they continue to push the agenda anyway. How
do I know this? Well have you heard of the 2007 Putnam study on diversity, E Pluribus Unum-
Diversity and Community in the Twenty-first Century?
No, well I can guarantee many of our leaders have, especially because when it
was published it was a very big deal, and it shows, beyond a shadow of the
doubt, what too much diversity does to a society – it destroys social cohesion,
divides people, and decreases the social capital that is needed for society to
be healthy.
What is
social capital? Well put simply it is the ability to access networks which
enable us to succeed (Putnam 1007, 137). The familiar phrase ‘it’s not what you
know, but who you know,’ sums up the importance of social capital in society.
Social capital can look like communities that have BBQ’s together, high positive
engagement in politics, ability to leave your home knowing your neighbours are
watching it, access to trustworthy babysitters, feeling safe enough to let your
children walk to school, or having neighbours who can feed your dog when you
are away. A society with high social capital is a healthy society.
The benefits
of social capital are many. Neighbourhoods with high social capital have less
crime (Putnam 2007, 138). Why? Because people watch out for each other and are
more likely to come to your aid. In fact,
“…much evidence suggests that where levels of social capital
are higher, children grow up healthier, safer and better educated, people live
longer, happier lives, and democracy and the economy work better (Putnam 2000,
in Putnam 2007, 138).
Sounds like
some very desirable outcomes doesn’t it? Indeed these outcomes are so desirable
you would think that our leaders would be doing everything they can to foster a
society where social capital increases. While there is some evidence they do, with investing in sporting clubs, community groups and community care groups
like chaplaincy, they are also undermining all of this with one act: a religious-like
commitment to high immigration, from diverse cultures. Why does this undermine
a healthy society? Because the higher the diversity, the lower social capital
is.
For example consider these findings:
•
Across countries, greater ethnic
heterogeneity seems to be associated with lower social trust (Newton &
Delhey 2005; Anderson & Paskeviciute 2006; but see also Hooghe et al.
2006).
•
Across local areas in the United
States, Australia, Sweden, Canada and Britain, greater ethnic diversity is
associated with lower social trust and, at least in some cases, lower
investment in public goods.
•
Across American census tracts,
greater ethnic heterogeneity is associated with lower rates of car-pooling, a
social practice that embodies trust and reciprocity (Charles & Kline 2002) (in Putnam 2007, 142-3).
Higher
diversity directly correlates with lower trust between groups of people between
those diverse groups. Consider figure 1.1:
As Putnam (2007,
147) says, “Inter-racial trust is relatively high in homogeneous South Dakota
and relatively low in heterogeneous San Francisco or Los Angeles. The more
ethnically diverse the people we live around, the less we trust them.” This
research wasn’t just based on a few people it has a sample size of roughly
30,000 people (Putnam 2007, 144), which is far beyond the level of engagement
needed to be consider representative of society.
The implications
of this are pretty clear, the consistent increase in smashing cultures together
through high immigration is only going to exacerbate whatever tensions there
already are between individual people groups. Increased diversity is going to
have the exact opposite effect well-intentioned people want. Rather than
creating bridges between the people groups, it will create increased tension, distrust,
and withdrawal. And the data bears this out conclusively.
But what is
sad is this happens even on the neighbourhood level. “…In more diverse
communities, people trust their neighbours less”, and not just diverse groups
in wider society (Putnam 2007, 148). Perhaps the most interesting finding was
that people even trust less people of their own ethnicity in diverse
communities (Putnam 2007, 148). Consider figure 1.2:
In other
words high levels of diversity destroy social cohesion in all directions and causes
people to withdraw in on themselves and remove themselves from the social
networks which are needed to help society and individuals develop along healthy
lines.
I just finished
reading an article earlier today written by a man who had immigrated here from
an Islamic country, who was arguing that he didn’t want Australia to become
more like his own country. He liked Australia as it is. He also said when he
moved here his family lived in a mostly Caucasian community, and he experienced
no racism, even though he was clearly from another very divergent culture. Why?
He likely moved into an area with high social cohesion and therefore high
social trust, which was extended to he and his family as they engaged in this
community. His experience exactly comports with the findings of the Putnam
study on diversity (you can read the by Ashraf Saleh article here
at Caldron Pool). Societies with lower levels of diversity are more likely
to trust those who are different to them.
So, trust goes
down in more diverse societies. Here are some of the negative effects:
• Lower
confidence in local government, local leaders and the local news media.
• Lower political efficacy – that is, confidence in their own influence.
• Lower political efficacy – that is, confidence in their own influence.
• Lower
frequency of registering to vote, but more interest and knowledge about
politics and more participation in protest marches and social reform groups.
• Less
expectation that others will cooperate to solve dilemmas of collective action
(e.g., voluntary conservation to ease a water or energy shortage).
• Less
likelihood of working on a community project.
• Lower
likelihood of giving to charity or volunteering.
• Fewer
close friends and confidants.
• Less
happiness and lower perceived quality of life.
• More
time spent watching television and more agreement that ‘television is my most
important form of entertainment’. (Putnam 2007, 149-150).
Now, this research
is not new, it was widely reported on when released, and there are many
academic articles discussing the findings, all you need to do is google: ‘Australia and
Putnam Study on Diversity’, and you will find it has been widely circulated and
discussed. For example this article in the Australian, Ethnic
diversity 'breeds mistrust' by Peter Wilson, discusses the findings of the
study in one of Australia’s most widely read newspapers. So, if this data is
known by at least some of our leaders, why do they still push it?
Well one
possible reason is they are ideologically committed to pushing it, either
because of progressive ideological commitments to diversity, or for free trade
reasons, such as the free movements of people for easy access to skilled labour.
There is after all evidence that immigration does benefit the economy (Putnam
2007, 140). However, is making a little bit more money really a good enough reason to damage society in all of the ways listed above?
But another possible
reason is this: they know it divides us. A society divided is one where those
in power can more easily hold their power. Note that one of the direct effects
of social withdrawal is “…more time spent watching television and more
agreement that ‘television is my most important form of entertainment” (Putnam
2007, 150). This immediately tells us that the talking heads on TV who are
constantly discussing such issues as ‘why do people give less’, ‘why are people
more alone than ever before’, ‘why do people engage in politics less and trust
politician less’, etc, etc, have no incentive to tell us the real answer to
these questions because they directly benefit from all these issues. The more
divided society is, the more the media can create public controversies or create
faux-controversies to keep us watching their inane shows.
This division
also benefits politicians who love to play the game of the politics of fear, or
the politics of class envy, or the politics of age wars, all issue which low
levels of social trust help foster. A divided society is one which is easier to
manipulate. There are plenty of reasons why Machiavellian leaders would want to
foster divisions in their society, even if they only get short term gains, but
the simplest one is this: divide and conquer. Our politicians often seem to aim
for short term gains over long term plans, indeed our whole system of
government tends to foster looking to the near future rather than further
ahead. Sadly as society gets more divided this situation is exacerbated. In
other words our leaders are sacrificing our societies future for their own temporary power and gain.
You may think
this is a rather cynical view of our leaders and media, well all I can say in
response to that is, I trust them less and less everyday, and they continue to
return reasons to trust them less. I wonder why my trust in them is decreasing?
Right here, let
me say what must be said. This article is not an attack on immigrants or a call
for Australia to shut its borders completely. As most Australians we can think
of some benefits of immigration, and the ways in which immigrants have added richness
to our society. Whether it is the Middle Eastern man in my church who with his
family dedicates much of his life to helping refugees find their feet in
Australian society, or the Dutch immigrant I know who speaks better English
than me and is 100% correct that cycling more wouldn’t hurt a lot of Aussies,
or the South African couple I know who display a self-reliance and work ethic
that many Aussies would be proud of, or even my own dad, who if he had not
immigrated here, I would not have been born in this awesome country, whether it
is these or other immigrants who you or I know, they have contributed greatly
to Australian society. I am not denying that in anyway.
This article
is written so that we can have an honest look at what will happen if immigration
is not drastically slowed, and if the people of diverse backgrounds who are
here are not given the chance to build the social cohesion and social capital that
is necessary for our society to flourish. There is no point in offering people
from overseas the chance to live in a wonderful Australia, if when they get
here, they find that social trust in at all time lows and on a downward spiral, and they are incentivized to withdraw into cultural enclaves.
I know my thoughts
here aren’t popular, but I don’t care. I am sick of being gaslighted by
dishonest, bordering on abusive, leaders who care more about keeping their
power, than being honest about how their policies are effecting everyday
Aussies. Time to call out their balderdash. Also time to slow down immigration,
before all social trust is gone.
References:
Gaslighting
Definition - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting
Putnam,
Robert D, 2007. Diversity and Community in the Twenty-first Century, The
2006 Johan Skytte Price Lecture, Nordic Political Science Association.
Saleh,
Ashraf, 2019. Multiculturalism and Modern Australia - https://caldronpool.com/multiculturalism-and-modern-australia/?fbclid=IwAR0w-qfOZfrU1oUJYUsBGmXezt8D8zan7N2-iRNiW7D5IFUuvheF7sZ5UVY
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